
Originally Posted by
Kolox
I'm not saying Yakumo action were good and I never said that before, but I won't back off when I said that Eri is acting like brat. Being and adult,no - being mature is being responsible for your actions. In world we have lot's of "kidults" - adults who acts like kids - and because there is lots of them, it's not an excuse to act like them.
Eri has consistently shown herself to realize that what she’s done is wrong, and do what’s necessary to correct it whenever she’s made a mistake. To attack her in the midst of one her dark moments is hardly fair, which you should know considering your method of defending Yakumo when I said she acted like a child.
By the way, Eri is an adolescent, not a "kidult." By definition, an adolescent is "a young person who has undergone puberty but who has not reached full maturity." To expect Eri to be fully mature is a bit much while she's still in the process of maturation. I have no idea where this notion of "kidults" came from; Lawrence Kohlberg would be ashamed.

Originally Posted by
Kolox
From all the group, how much unexpected it seems, Tenma acts most mature. She knows of her own clumsinesses and being too fast in saying something which might hurt someone - feeling that is the case, she admitted she was wrong and she wants to apologize
Tenma’s method of reconciliation is very immature. She believes that simply saying sorry will make things all right between the two. If Tenma was actually mature, she’d realize that she needs to learn what made Eri mad before blindly attributing the blame entirely to herself so that she could correct herself from making future mistakes or correct any misunderstandings if they exist. Admitting you’re wrong while having no clue how you were wrong, or if you even were wrong, is childish.
For an example of a mature act, re-read the Sports Festival arc. Eri realizes she went too far by shaving Harima's head, so she acts responsible by making sure that Harima isn't publicly humiliated at her own expense.

Originally Posted by
Kolox
(it's impossible for Tenma to get Eri's real reason of her anger, since - in my opinion - she didn't do anything wrong, it's just Eri who is jealous and insincere).
Tenma has gotten mad for the exact same reason Eri was mad, so she's very capable of empathizing with Eri's plight. Way back in the first volume, Tenma got mad at Eri when she believed that Eri was making moves on Karasuma, and now Eri thinks, or thought, that Tenma was “betraying” her by pursuing Harima.
Of course, in your opinion, Tenma didn’t do anything wrong since you, as a reader, know that Tenma did not do anything wrong. Eri, though, falsely believes that Tenma was going after Harima, which is why she was mad at her. You have to draw the line between character and reader perception. It’s situations like these that it’s necessary to empathize with the characters.

Originally Posted by
Kolox
As for Yakumo, she will if she is not already suffer consequences of what she did, so I'm just leaving her alone (..Eri and Yakumo can sometimes be really similar)
Ah, but Eri has already suffered for her actions. Why don't you leave her alone, then? I made a long post, but you only picked out one section to launch off an attack against Eri, and you're still continuing to just rant on about how she’s such a spoiled brat.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you. - Friedrich Nietzsche
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