Ask Dr. Ecchi

Well youngems, if there's any doubt or anything at all you want to ask about futari ecchi or sex in general just post 'em here. I'll answer as honestly as possible and not pretend to know about anything that i have no idea about. Instead, i'll just bluntly say that i haven't gone down that road before and not be a smartass.

Secondly, for the veterans out there - please post any constructive tips/hints that might help any first-timers out there or anyone who's just out there to absorb more knowledge. Better still, you could share tips on how to spice up the love life of a couple who's been together for a long period of time and their sex life is starting to get monotonous.

P.S: smartass comments would be best kept to oneself.
(Dumbasses who dont understand what that meant, it means： Shut the hell up if you havent got anything good to say.)


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Disclaimer:

While I'm not claiming to be super knowledgable and 100% correct about sex and any of it's related topics, i think i'm not ignorant to them either and have been exposed enough to know what i'm talking about. Since a young age, i've shown great interest in the sex and have observed/experienced/studied/questioned it whenever possible. Even until now i still try to gather more knowledge in order to become a better lover.

I have only been in two serious relationship lasting 1.5 years and 3.5 years consecutively. The latter just ended about 3 months ago. However, i have had more experience with different women than i have fingers and toes to count with. Including occasions whereby there was more than 1 partner on the bed simultaneously.

I've talked to enough people to see some patterns emerging in some of the very common problems that guys have (from the girls' perspective) and vice versa. Also interviewed plenty enough to know different varieties of likes and the favourite things that the ladies have experienced. The only thing that i never tried asking is what guys liked - cause i dont care what other guys like - and i know what i like myself.

I'm currently seeing someone. She's 10 years older than me and we do experience our own interesting 'futari ecchi' sort of problems as well.


P.S: PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT ALL YOUR ANSWERS WILL BE ANSWERED BY NORMAL PEOPLE, AND NOT TRAINED DOCTORS OR PSYCHOLOGISTS, GYNAECOLOGIST OR ANY PROFESSIONAL IN THE MEDICAL INDUSTRY. DO NOT TAKE THE THINGS SAID HERE AS 100% ACCURATE. OWN DISCRETION IS ADVISED.





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But Japan is the land of the devil where they speak deviltakese.

What on earth is deviltakese? Where'd you come up with this kindda things?

Shall give constructive advice and, or criticism as i deem fit from time to time. Only pertaining to sexual problems that you cannot just google up or if b3g0 gets something wrong by chance. Both sexes are welcome since i have knowledge on both, but less for women than men (as i am male the only way i know about female sexual problems is through questioning girls, researching and my courses on sex in college).

what could be the best postion to give the female the most pleasure?

I think research is important.
I like the quote from Revenge of the Nerds: "All Jocks think about is sports; All nerds think about is sex."
I was relatively skilled when i first had the chance to practice all I'd studied.

"You were the first person to..." is a nice thing to hear EVER, let alone the third/ fourth time you try something.

Also, I hope I'm not being presumtuous or out of line to suggest that people give ways to apply things to homosexual relationships as well.

Most of the things covered in the manga and in general can apply, but there are differences(duh) and those can be pretty important.
Dissapointment is never good.

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Originally Posted by MidNight

what could be the best postion to give the female the most pleasure?

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That depends on the person/people.
more penetration might be a good idea for some couples and not for others(trust me. more is NOT always better. Bottoming out is not fun for ANYONE involved).
It's good to start with knees up missionary and experiment until she says "let's try that again."
Always ask and make sure she's comfortablewith giving suggestions and asking questions.

The missionary position is usually thought of to give pleasure to women the most. It is infact false. Althought many women say missionary is good its usually cus their partners are really good at giving them pleasure with it. Unfortunately for regular ppl that is not the case. Missionary gives max pleasure to the man while giving ok stuff to the woman. Want her to feel the most pleasure? Let her get ontop. When a woman is ontop she can control how deep its going and where its hitting. Best way to give a woman max pleasure. Reverse cowboy is good. Otherwise doggy is a traditional standby if you still wish to have control.

If you wish to stick to missionary try to slide a pillow under her bum. It will elevate her hips which will allow you to hit her g spot inside more. This will equate to a more pleasureful experience than normal missionary. Ofcourse to counter her sliding off the pillow try to hold onto her arms or her in general to counteract the force of you pushing her. Or you can always ask a woman what she likes best. Never hurts to ask.

It's really not so much the position as the effort put into it. If you just go bang-bang-bang then it's not much fun for the woman. And as the manga pointed out some positions really aren't suitable for first-timers. Flexibility/athleticism is also an issue.

Personally I don't know what I like yet (I'm a virgin - go me!), but overly complicated manouevers like the wheelbarrow frighten me.

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Originally Posted by b3g0

Since a young age, i've shown great interest in the sex and have observed/experienced/studied/questioned it whenever possible.

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What did you make a peep hole into your parents bedroom?