Thread: Ask Dr. Ecchi

I am 15 years old & I have small body.
My penis size is 12 cm when erect, is it okay/normal, because alot of my friend have larger size, most of them 15 cm?
And is there any way to enlarge or make my penis longer, because I don't satisfied with my current size ~_~?

Plz answer my question, I'm begging (>_<)..

"My penis size is 12 cm when erect."
*correction:
Even smaller than that..I'm sad (T_T) hix hix..

"My penis size is 12 cm when erect."
*correction:
Even smaller than that..I'm sad (T_T) hix hix..

*Sorry for the double post, this is my first tume posting something, sorry..

Originally Posted by "AB"

I am 15 years old & I have small body.
My penis size is 12 cm when erect, is it okay/normal, because alot of my friend have larger size, most of them 15 cm?
And is there any way to enlarge or make my penis longer, because I don't satisfied with my current size ~_~?

Plz answer my question, I'm begging (>_<)..

4.7 inches right? Well honestly it's below average for an American. However you're 15, as you age you're going to get longer. In the past year i grew about .5 inches myself.

Size shouldn't really concern you. Even if you're a bit smaller then if you learn the techniques better then everyone else then they're going to be envious of you.

Thank you! But is there any other way to enlarge it?

Originally Posted by ECCHIKING

I'm not entirely sure that doing kegels so fast in her condition is a good idea. Kegels for women in my knowledge makes the vagina "tighter" and she, being a newly consummated woman, would make sex the next few times around a little more painful then it should be yes? If that's the case then i would suggest they have sex a little more and then start kegeling. =]

Yeah, that's what I meant to say. Evening postings after a hard days' work aren't always the clearest...

Originally Posted by "AB"

Thank you! But is there any other way to enlarge it?

15 years old and 12 cm, eh? I've heard of much smaller. That said, the short answer is no. There's no way to make your penis get bigger than it is naturally prone to do short of horrible surgery.

Your penis will probably get bigger as you get older. I don't have a great memory of it, but I seem to recall that mine got a good bit larger between age 15 and 20 or so.

The good news is that it really doesn't matter all that much. Your penis feels the same to you as it would if it were larger. Pleasing a woman depends on many other things much more important than penis size.

thanks alot.
shes fine now and ive talked to her about it alot.
and its all good now. i think i did tear her a fair bit but things are fine now.
but its often good for virgins to not be on top because if its painful when they lower themselves down and they know the pain that will occur. unless her "deflowering" isnt painful and then i agree with u that the girl should be on top.

Originally Posted by dunky88

thanks alot.
shes fine now and ive talked to her about it alot.
and its all good now. i think i did tear her a fair bit but things are fine now.
but its often good for virgins to not be on top because if its painful when they lower themselves down and they know the pain that will occur. unless her "deflowering" isnt painful and then i agree with u that the girl should be on top.

Deflowering pertains to virgins doesn't it? Anyway when she has sex after losing her hymen then it shouldn't be painful unless you ram it in there when you start. You still need to start slow.

Also she doesn't have to start on top. You just need to suggest it to her or lead her into it during sex starting with missionary.

Protip:
A girl's first time on top is very awkward, so don't sit back and relax - help her out by guiding her hips with your hands, or even opposing the motion by rocking your hips against hers. Perfecting that angle while on top takes a bit of getting used to, so at first she might not feel any pleasure. Make sure you encourage her in any way you see fit; after awhile you'll both get used to the angle and motion.
That said, I'm still getting used to being on top myself ^^; Anyone have any more tips?

Originally Posted by Mochiko_chan88

Protip:
A girl's first time on top is very awkward, so don't sit back and relax - help her out by guiding her hips with your hands, or even opposing the motion by rocking your hips against hers. Perfecting that angle while on top takes a bit of getting used to, so at first she might not feel any pleasure. Make sure you encourage her in any way you see fit; after awhile you'll both get used to the angle and motion.
That said, I'm still getting used to being on top myself ^^; Anyone have any more tips?

Damn i lost my log in because i typed for so long. XD
I'll just type it again really fast.

I just realized that i have no knowledge with what a woman does when on top. I guess you learn something everyday .

I can try giving some guesses as to what you can do as i'm sure senile will correct me if i'm wrong when he gets off from his stressful work life. Anyway when on top the most important thing is rhythm for you and him. When you're on top you have the most control and he's mainly there for the pumping (he can control angle of penetration as well though), although some guys i worked with said that usually when it's her on top they let her start and then they use the momentum. This, i assume, is bad for the sync as when he's going up you're going up as well and wouldn't feel as good compared to being in sync so that when he's pumping up you're coming down. After you get the rhythm down you can control the angle of penetration and other things.

Am i right?