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    Swordfish II is offline Senior Member Frequent Poster
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    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    Thanks. I have a question I have been wondering for a year now.Why is it that sometimes in the vagina, there's some white substance and what is it? Not during the period.
    Well, as Senile said, this could be bad or it could be good. Sounds to me like it's good.

    From my experience, women, particularly women before thirty or so, can produce a surprising amount of slick white mucus when they're turned on. Exact color and texture will vary, from clear to "egg white". There's some info on this here, under "Cervical Mucus":

    http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk...ycleprint.html


    Quote Originally Posted by Stup1d View Post
    My girlfriend and I love each other very much, but we agree to postpone having sex until we marry, which is a very long time from now. This afternoon, we were flirting with each other as usual, and before we knew it, we had done petting with no clothes attached (no penetration), and my sperm was smeared on her wet vagina. We quickly cleaned it, but now we're haunted with the feeling that i've just impregnated her, even though she's still a virgin.

    My question is that is it possible to impregnate her without a penetration?
    Short version: As others have already said here -- Yes. Not a big chance, it depends on varying factors such as the time of month, etc., but a chance.

    Pardon me for saying so, but you state that you are "postponing sex", but are then engaging in sexual relations where you fear you've impregnated her. You may want to take a step back and re-evaluate your stance on pre-maritial sex, because you're saying one thing and doing another. Sounds to me like you are about 95% OK with the idea, despite saying you want to "postpone" it. Which is up to you, of course; I just wanted to point that out.


    Quote Originally Posted by DecentX View Post
    i was wondering what is the average length/inches from the entrance of the vagina to the entrance uterus/womb
    A good question, and one that is kind of surprising that it hasn't been asked up until now. At least, not that I can tell. And the answer is, "it depends".

    Many medical texts state that the length can vary from 2.5 to 4 inches, which really isn't that much. From my experiences, it seems like some are deeper; I'm sure that variables like race and whatnot could be a factor. Check out this page for reference, and you'll see that there really isn't that much distance between the vaginal opening and the cervix:

    http://dtc.pima.edu/~biology/202alpha/lesson12/lesson12k.htm

    But the vagina is quite elastic, and is capable of stretching to certain limits. When the glans of the penis is pushing against the cervix, this is when women will say that "you're hitting the back". Whether or not a male large enough will actually push through the cervix and enter the womb, I don't know. From what I've seen, I'd say it's possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swordfish II View Post

    A good question, and one that is kind of surprising that it hasn't been asked up until now. At least, not that I can tell. And the answer is, "it depends".

    Many medical texts state that the length can vary from 2.5 to 4 inches, which really isn't that much. From my experiences, it seems like some are deeper; I'm sure that variables like race and whatnot could be a factor. Check out this page for reference, and you'll see that there really isn't that much distance between the vaginal opening and the cervix:

    But the vagina is quite elastic, and is capable of stretching to certain limits. When the glans of the penis is pushing against the cervix, this is when women will say that "you're hitting the back". Whether or not a male large enough will actually push through the cervix and enter the womb, I don't know. From what I've seen, I'd say it's possible.
    i think ill speak for everyone here and say, u just made every guys here feel more confident and glad about weither their if penis is long or short. thanks man

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    ok, it's my turn to ask a question, but I don't think this one is gonna be fun.

    here's my situation : I'm sick. i suffer from 2 odd diseases (spondylitis and fibromyalgia), and my joints and muscles are always painful.
    so, to me, sex is painful. there's no way to help it, since everytime I move, it hurts. gladly, I take a lot of meds (including morphine) which somehow reduce the pain. but I didn't stop having sex, since even with pain, pleasure is still there. there're some moves I can't do, or not for long (like fellatio), some positions I can't take, but I somehow manage to please my guy, nd me in the same time (although drugs kinda anesthetize me on that part too).
    I'm thankful I've had my share of experience before i got too sick, so today, I can optimize sex (that's not a lot of fun, but I take what I get).
    until today, I haven't really told any of my partners all that. of course, they know i'm sick since I can't hide it, but they don't know how much pain sex can cause for me. I think they would really freak out.
    so here's my first question (i'm asking everyone here): how would you react if a girl you like told you that ? that everytime you touch her, everytime you have sex with her, it will hurt her a lot, even if it's her own choice ?

    second question, related to the frst one , but wider : would you go out with that girl ? knowing that her life only revolves around drugs, pain, hospital, that she can't even do her housework, that she has to lie down a few hours before and after sex, or any activity that involves moving (shopping, going to a restaurant, a movie, kinda anything you do generally on dates)...
    I'm asking that because since almost every guy I went out with freaked out when they finally found out what my life really was like, or in the best case, were incomfortable with my handicap (one didn't, but it didn't work out between us).
    I don't know if I should go on hiding it. I do that to protect them, not for me. I try to let them discover it slowly, at their own pace, but it seems like it's not enough, I don't know what else to do. help !!


    (god, when I read this, I really think I'm lucky I'm hot )

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    should speak up about the issue early on; not right off the bat (would be weird), but not a year or so deep into the relationship either. because, on his end, it might feel as if you were hiding something from him, and on your end, if he dumps you 'cause of it, he wouldn't have been worth it anyway and it'd've been a waste of emotional investment.

    that's how i feel about it at least =\ not sure how "normal" guys think. i've been told that i'm weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DecentX View Post
    i was wondering what is the average length/inches from the entrance of the vagina to the entrance uterus/womb
    Well, Swordfish II gave the literally correct answer, complete with online text citation. What neither he nor the citation appear to mention (didn't read the cited page all that closely) is that the vagina is extensible toward the backbone from the entrance. So yes, the glans usually bumps the cervix (which, if she's excited enough, is a good thing), but it slides past the cervical neck and stretches the soft tissue into the space behind. This isn't really shown in the cross-sectional drawing because the cadavers used as models for such drawings tend not to be in a state of sexual arousal at the time. Yes, women get erections too (there actually is some erectile tissue that does things like spread the labia apart), and part of this process is opening things up inside.

    I ran across MRI stills of a married couple of performance artists in flagrante delicto (yes, they actually got it on while being scanned with an MRI). This was, afaik, the first time in history that an inside view of the actual act has ever been managed. Check Metafilter's archives for a link if you're curious.

    And to repeat what She Who Must be Obeyed said about it: she regards girth (diameter) as being much more important to her pleasure than length. I think she needs a minimum of about 4-5 inches of length (just enough to bump the cervix) but has unkind things to say about 'pencil dicks' as she calls them regardless of length.

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    ok, it's my turn to ask a question, but I don't think this one is gonna be fun.

    here's my situation : I'm sick. i suffer from 2 odd diseases (spondylitis and fibromyalgia) ...snip...
    Been there, done that - literally. I had a woman in my life who had a severe spinal injury resulting in pinched nerves and a lot of damaged soft tissue. The result, on bad days, is similar to what you describe, and likewise is medicated with opiates (typically extended-release morphine). So I'm very familiar with what it's like to be the man in that situation. Likewise, I had a good friend come down with fibromyalgia years before, so I am familiar with the effects both of the illness and its common treatments.

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    so here's my first question (i'm asking everyone here): how would you react if a girl you like told you that ? that everytime you touch her, everytime you have sex with her, it will hurt her a lot, even if it's her own choice ?
    I'll tell you this - some days it's a lot harder to get enthusiastic about the idea of sex, knowing she's in a lot of pain and knowing that one false move can make it a lot worse. Healthy sex is ideally about the most uninhibited thing two people can do together. Knowing that you can hurt somebody really puts a damper on it. This doesn't mean that you should give up on the idea, but it does mean that it's really extra-important to tell the guy when you're having a good day, so that he can relax a little and be a little more aggressive about things.

    But people need affection, and part of that is being touched. It's your decision to make if you want to suffer the pain that goes along with it today or not. And as long as you explain that to the guy at the appropriate point - that you absolve him of direct responsibility because you're willing to suffer the pain to get the pleasure - he should be OK with it, if pretty unhappy about it. Don't expect him to be thrilled. In fact, expect him to be sad about it sometimes because he cares about you enough that he doesn't want to hurt you for any reason, even if you say it's OK.

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    second question, related to the frst one , but wider : would you go out with that girl ? knowing that her life only revolves around drugs, pain, hospital, that she can't even do her housework, that she has to lie down a few hours before and after sex, or any activity that involves moving (shopping, going to a restaurant, a movie, kinda anything you do generally on dates)...
    I'm asking that because since almost every guy I went out with freaked out when they finally found out what my life really was like, or in the best case, were incomfortable with my handicap (one didn't, but it didn't work out between us).
    Go out with - maybe, if I thought she was a worthwhile-enough person to make being around her a pleasure. That said, you'd better expect to have really unusual guys stay interested in you - it's definitely not everybody's cup of tea. You're obviously a lot sicker than the woman in my example was - she couldn't ever do some things, and on her worst days was as bad as you describe yourself here.

    As a useful postscript - try to find a holistic endocrinologist. They tend to be really good at tweaking your blood chemistry, which can make a huge difference with muscular pain. In my example woman's case, he had her on DHEA to boost her testosterone production, which didn't work, and ended up prescribing transdermal testosterone cream, which did. She's much better now than she was when I met her years ago - reduced muscle pain, faster recovery from exertion, etc. And yes, as a side-note, men do have a little estrogen, and women do have some testosterone. The system is supposed to be in a dynamic equilibrium of opposing forces.

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    (god, when I read this, I really think I'm lucky I'm hot )
    Sounds like you were dealt a rough hand - at least you have that going for you. Ganbatte!
    Not really the love+hate god, but the pic (from Midori no Hibi) is just too funny... Blog? Yeah.

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    I don't have a question or many answers but i wanted to say (in the best french i could) "Dos bienvenu!" to ikhea. You haven't been here in a while

    Going to your little life problem...that sucks D: It's as you said that wasn't fun reading that but i'm glad senile is experienced in everything to answer for you O_O

    Going to your questions.
    1) I would try making her as happy as possible but honestly i don't think that a relationship would work with me and someone like that sex wise. Being a teen and a virgin i tend to be sex crazed all the time but what guy isn't XD
    2) Again i don't think so, i would have to be a doctor or an expert at solving what she is going through to be happy with someone like that.

    Somehow i think my answers will make you sad D:

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    (god, when I read this, I really think I'm lucky I'm hot )
    XD How hot are you? O_O

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    Just read the entire thread, and I must say I'm a huge fan and very much appreciate all the information here, its definitely affected my sex life for the better. Kudos to you all for posting great questions/answers! ^^
    I read senile_seinen's post about breasts and was wondering about the effects of weight loss; about a year or two ago I lost ~80 pounds and have gone from being nearly a D cup to a B cup. They obviously look different now, but I was wondering how it would change my breasts in relation to the connective tissue underneath, decreased amount of fat, etc etc.
    Also the general shape has changed (it's gone from hemispherical/very round to the sort of teardrop shape shown in the breasts chapter of FE), is this normal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mochiko_chan88 View Post
    Just read the entire thread, and I must say I'm a huge fan and very much appreciate all the information here, its definitely affected my sex life for the better. Kudos to you all for posting great questions/answers! ^^
    I read senile_seinen's post about breasts and was wondering about the effects of weight loss; about a year or two ago I lost ~80 pounds and have gone from being nearly a D cup to a B cup. They obviously look different now, but I was wondering how it would change my breasts in relation to the connective tissue underneath, decreased amount of fat, etc etc.
    Also the general shape has changed (it's gone from hemispherical/very round to the sort of teardrop shape shown in the breasts chapter of FE), is this normal?
    First, congratulations on losing the weight! You're a lot likely to stay healthy and live a happy life now.

    The shape change is perfectly normal - typical in fact.
    Not really the love+hate god, but the pic (from Midori no Hibi) is just too funny... Blog? Yeah.

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    Sadly i think that this thread is dying. After a year long streak i am sad to see it happen. T.T
    I also have no more questions to the female mind/body at the moment as the only woman to invoke those thought is moving to Florida. She was the one that liked me in my previous posts by the way. As of now i see no person in my classes and school that are close to me. I don't think i'll find a woman i like until after high school (T.T).

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    random question: is there a possibility of getting infected with some sort of disease through oral sex, or is it relatively more safe than actual intercourse ?

 

 
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