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    Coldfuzion is offline Member Frequent Poster
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    Quote Originally Posted by God_of_Path
    Hey, does the time it takes you to get off "on your own" have any correlation to how long you'll last in bed? Also, what's the average time for guy to last "on his own"? I'm a guy.
    Not really. The real thing is always going to get you more into it. You could be some crazy person that needs to do it for half an hour to get off and not last 10 seconds in the sack. Ofcourse this all has to do with your mind not your physical body. There are ways to increase the time you last however with excercises physically. For example Kegels are an excellent way to increase the time you can last in bed. Other ways are to masturbate but trying to keep your mind off of it. You can look up these techniques in google since there are many sites on it.

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    Ok. that was interesting, but here's the problem. It actually does take me like a half hour to get off alone. with "help" (i.e magazines, lube, etc.). does this mean that it will take me a long time to get off with a partner? Also, is this a good thing, 'cause I've always heard of premature ejaculation being a problem, but never delayed ejaculation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by God_of_Path
    Hey, does the time it takes you to get off "on your own" have any correlation to how long you'll last in bed? Also, what's the average time for guy to last "on his own"? I'm a guy.
    none what so ever...you could go strong by yourself for like an hour and it would not relate to what you can do when your with a real live girl, especially if its your first time...to much doki doki if you know what i mean . normally the key is to be able to distance yourself from it a little bit, ya know thing about baseball stats, or something like that, some thing to calm you down. as for an average time for a guy getting himself off normally the faster the better, hehehehe

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    CFuzion:
    Why would i be a crazy person if i need half an hour to get off? Is that too long for you? In fact, i usually love to take my own sweet time doing it and try to hold off as long as i can. Apart from enjoyment, i take it as a practice to prolong the time it takes to ejaculate. Women love it. Apparantly it works really well too, since i've been able to have sex for a very long period of time now.

    God of Path:
    I'm not really sure how to exactly answer your question here. I dont know if there is a specific answer for it or not. But for me, it works pretty much the same direction. What i mean is: the longer i'm able to hold off while i'm masturbating, the longer i'm able to hold off during sex. Well, i'm not saying this is applicable with everyone, since the feeling of sex and masturbation of completely different. You have all the control in masturbation and much less control during sex. Your partner plays a part too. Anyways, for me - it works very well.

    ice200:
    G-spot is actually pretty easy to find. In simple english, it's the area of the wall where her bush should be on the other side. Well, it differs slightly between women, but i've never had any difficulties locating it. This applies internationally, whether the woman's an asian or a caucasian (havent tried the rest). Like CFuzion said, it's the only rough spot in the vagina, so you wont be able to miss it. It's not anywhere deep too, so you can usually reach it with a finger.

    This is the over simplified version of how to find the elusive g spot (missionary style):
    1) put in finger
    2) turn finger 180 degrees so that your nails are facing the floor.
    3) bend finger so that the tip point upwards
    4) if you feel uneven spots of the wall, bingo!

    Usually, it's pretty obvious if you got the right spot or not from the reaction of the girl. Read her breathing, hear her voice and watch her body language. You know you got it if there's a reaction from her.


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    yo, weird for ECCHIKING to be asking something here but believe it or not i'm a virgin (more like a super virgin-never had a gf) anyway if you can't feel anything from masturbation until you orgasm is that a good thing?

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    are u Fat?

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    Quote Originally Posted by b3g0
    CFuzion:


    ice200:
    G-spot is actually pretty easy to find. In simple english, it's the area of the wall where her bush should be on the other side. Well, it differs slightly between women, but i've never had any difficulties locating it. This applies internationally, whether the woman's an asian or a caucasian (havent tried the rest). Like CFuzion said, it's the only rough spot in the vagina, so you wont be able to miss it. It's not anywhere deep too, so you can usually reach it with a finger.

    This is the over simplified version of how to find the elusive g spot (missionary style):
    1) put in finger
    2) turn finger 180 degrees so that your nails are facing the floor.
    3) bend finger so that the tip point upwards
    4) if you feel uneven spots of the wall, bingo!

    Usually, it's pretty obvious if you got the right spot or not from the reaction of the girl. Read her breathing, hear her voice and watch her body language. You know you got it if there's a reaction from her.


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    Weird fun fact which has nothing to do with anything:
    好 - (Chinese) Hao[3]. Means good, okay, done, etc.
    好 - (Japanese) Suki. Means to like <smth>. Or liking someone in a boyfriend/girlfriend way.
    some g spots are located near the cervix

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    I'm really pleased with this thread...
    I've had my share of guys, and I wish everyone of them would have been so well informed...
    And also, congratulations for the responses, mostly realistic and technically correct...
    but if someone needs a girl's opinion, maybe for more mental problems, how girls see or feel sex, just ask, I'll be glad to give my contribution to this little community
    And I hope I'll be able to learn some new stuff about men... never stop learning, that's the key...

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    Quote Originally Posted by chadt
    are u Fat?
    NO I'M NOT FAT does that even matter

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    Quote Originally Posted by ECCHIKING
    yo, weird for ECCHIKING to be asking something here but believe it or not i'm a virgin (more like a super virgin-never had a gf) anyway if you can't feel anything from masturbation until you orgasm is that a good thing?
    TEchnically speaking, a mans orgasm is pretty lame in comparison to a womans. If you made a chart of how much pleasure your getting the womans could go multiple ways. It can go up to a plateau of constant pleasure and than a climatic peak where she orgasms. It could also hit several peaks after a gradual build up or even have many peaks after a plateau period (these would be multiple orgasms). It is also possible for her to have several long plateau periods but with no peaks.

    Guys pretty much have one graph corresponding to this. Its pretty much nothing than a big spike. Thats pretty much our orgasm. It really doesn't vary much. Ofcourse you can try to prolong it but the graph shall remain the same. Therefore your "only feeling pleasure at orgasm" is entirely in the realm of possibility. Unless it was not like that when you did it the first few times. ie. the first few times it was different but now you only feel pleasure during orgasm. Than this might be a too much masturbation problem. Yes there is such a thing where masturbating too much desensitizes your penis. Ofcourse this happens after doing it an absurd number of times so I guess your question fits scenario one.

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea
    I'm really pleased with this thread...
    I've had my share of guys, and I wish everyone of them would have been so well informed...
    And also, congratulations for the responses, mostly realistic and technically correct...
    but if someone needs a girl's opinion, maybe for more mental problems, how girls see or feel sex, just ask, I'll be glad to give my contribution to this little community
    And I hope I'll be able to learn some new stuff about men... never stop learning, that's the key...
    We do our best...well atleast i do, dunno about the others. Ask any question you wish. This thread should be equal for both sexes since males aren't the only ones with problems
    Last edited by Coldfuzion; 06-16-2006 at 04:28 PM.

 

 
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