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    ECCHIKING is offline Senior Member Frequent Poster
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    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    I have a question. If the vagina is wet, does that mean the female is feeling good? Can the vagina get wet even if the female is not feeling horny?
    I remember reading that if the vagina is wet she is thinking about sex. She doesn't necessarily have to be pleasured.

    Quote Originally Posted by bukiremix
    I have a question for the moderators. As this thread has now grown to 40 pages in length why has it not been stickied?
    No pun intended, really.
    I'm no moderator but i guess its because this thread doesn't have many threads anyway?

    Quote Originally Posted by lazy-
    I have a question what does holding your load mean lol? Does that mean from the time you are about to cum and holding it than or from the very beginning of sex?
    It means that when you're about to ejaculate you hold it like you would hold your own piss.

    Side note why is it that when senile is out of commission meaning not posting as much that the thread is spammed with questions lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by megamann7 View Post
    hi! i think i may have an answer to this phenomenon. i asked a couple of my female friends and they said "the girl may be ashamed to show you to her friends. you're not bad looking, you're pretty handsome, and you have an excellent personality, it's just that your not drop dead gorgeous, and you can't look at personality, so their friends may not approve." i was baffled at this to say the least. i don't know what to make of it. i knew everyone can be shallow but this is about as shallow as the pool can get. any thoughts?
    lmfao..dont worri man..u dont have to be gorgeous to have a pretti girl as a gf...trust me i know ...hahaha im just guessin most of the girls a) alreadi have a bf and is not telling you b) they jus want to play the field and are not lookin for sumthin long c) theyre just freakin loserrzz haha but seriouslyy there will be at least one girl who dont care bout that...thing is dont pick up girls at the club.....unless u want like a oine night stand thing goin on...

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    I finally remembered what i was going to ask! Actually i remembered some time ago i was just too lazy to write it >.> Anyway i remembered the post about shell fish making people horny. Ok so my girlfriend is vegetarian so are there any foods that would get her horny like shellfish would that she can eat?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ECCHIKING View Post
    I finally remembered what i was going to ask! Actually i remembered some time ago i was just too lazy to write it >.> Anyway i remembered the post about shell fish making people horny. Ok so my girlfriend is vegetarian so are there any foods that would get her horny like shellfish would that she can eat?
    nothing. if it makes you feel better, shellfish (or any food) won't do it either.
    the thing that works in that kind of dinner is the mood, the fact that you're taking care/bying expensive things for her, and maybe alcohol, because of the desinhibation, but that's it.
    it's the same thing with all "aphrodisiacs" : if you take it with a horny mood, you'll stay/get more horny. it's only in your mind.
    some may cause a larger amount of blood coming to certain parts of your body, but if the person is not in a sexy mood, it doesn't change that.

    so take your girlfriend to a nice vegetarian dinner, it shows that you care about her, it's the best way.

    kelvintjy wrote :
    Can I ask another question and soory if my question offend you all. What does it meant that when the person had reach his/her limit? Does this means that the person almost orgasm?
    I'm not too sure I understand your question... in certain cases, it can mean that, but I don't know the context, so I won't be to affirmative about it.
    that answer sucks, I know, if you want a better one, please explain your question a little more.
    Last edited by ikhea; 04-19-2007 at 10:40 PM.

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    Wow - so all I needed to do was just catch the flu and a mean bacterial secondary! I'm sorry for you guys, but I refuse to do this again just to generate traffic on this thread.

    I'm going to have to try to be somewhat brief and picky here, because double-posting isn't cool, and, well, posts can be too long (yes, even for me). If you don't get your question answered, ask again! Special thanks to everybody for pitching in with good answers!

    OK: question #1: aphrodisiacs. Simply put, they don't really exist. There are, however, a lot of drugs (including alcohol) that can, in moderate doses, reduce inhibitions, and this often increases willingness, or helps sexual desire become more apparent. Different people react different ways to different things, so one man/woman's aphrodisiac is another's sleeping pill. Generally, however, a little wine or possibly beer (I'm not suggesting anybody violate laws here, btw) can definitely help everybody to relax and get in the mood. I used to think that wine was the universal choice of womanhood, but milady actually is somewhat sexually invigorated by beer, but wine just makes her frowsy.

    Good meal choices for pre-coital fueling are light high-protein low-simple-carb meals. Spaghetti and pizza are not great choices, oysters, sushi, or a little lean meat are. Portion size is important - a full belly is definitely not good for sex drive, and neither is hunger. So you want food with staying power in a compact package. Oh, and if you're expecting to give or recieve oral gratification, stay away from foods that make you gassy...

    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea View Post
    so take your girlfriend to a nice vegetarian dinner, it shows that you care about her, it's the best way.
    Well, there's the whole gassy from legumes question, but other than that, yes, it can work.

    Quote Originally Posted by lazy- View Post
    I have a question what does holding your load mean lol? Does that mean from the time you are about to cum and holding it than or from the very beginning of sex?
    Basically it means doing whatever you need to do to not lose your cool before she's happy. It might mean slowing down, shallower penetration, stopping for a bit, doing math in your head, but it all boils down to taking the time to enjoy being there...after all, it is the best place in the whole world.

    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    I have a question. If the vagina is wet, does that mean the female is feeling good? Can the vagina get wet even if the female is not feeling horny?
    Yes, and yes, respectively. There's more than one kind of wet. She can be sweaty (which doesn't really count) or it could be the ovulation time of the month (slick), or she could be sexually excited (lubricating), or any combination of the three. Short answer is: if she's warm and wet down there, and she seems to like what you're doing, then keep doing it.

    Quote Originally Posted by kelvintjy View Post
    Can I ask another question and soory if my question offend you all. What does it meant that when the person had reach his/her limit? Does this means that the person almost orgasm?
    Like Ikhea, I'm not really sure what you're getting at here. Please rephrase.

    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    She doesn't.Seems like she is the silent type. My ex was super noisy >_>
    Noisiness - girls are all over the map on this one, especially when they're younger. Some never will be very noisy, some will be once they get over the embarrassment factor. I have to say that, in my experience, the noisier ones are more fun. A man likes to have his work appreciated, you know. If you're really lucky, she'll scratch you, too.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gus3 View Post
    Is it safe to do it without a condom if shes on the pill?
    That depends on what you want to be safe from. Pregnancy? Yes, as long as she's reliable about taking the pill. Allow me to point out that if you've gotten her into bed, somebody else (or several somebody elses) probably has too. And if she went bareback with them, you're sharing whatever diseases they gave her. If you're lucky it's just something like chlamydia. If you're not so lucky, it's something less fun like herpes, warts, or something worse. Women often have no visible symptoms to many of the common STIs. You can't tell by looking.

    Quote Originally Posted by ruffneck168 View Post
    his gf's period happened, and then 3 days after they had sex without a condom. Being smart he didnt give off his load inside her, but he had a bit of precum. Is there a chance that she might get pregnant? And it is already too late to use plan b, and she isnt on the pill. What i said was that it wasnt proven that precum could cause pregnancy, but im not too sure.
    Yes, there's a chance. It's slight, but nonzero. She'll know in a few weeks if it caught or not (probably didn't) The pee-on-a-stick things are reliable indicators. If she did catch, and she doesn't want to bear the child, and is thinking about an abortion, she should go sooner rather than later - both the physical and the ethical problems are much simpler if dealt with earlier in pregnancy. Waiting and dragging it out makes it worse for everybody.

    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    Yeah.I've stopped masturbating since and it felt better.
    Also, my partner does not feel anything except for a `big thing' deep inside her body (that's what she said.)
    However, she is quite wet.
    She doesn't moan like what my other girl friends telling me about their experiences.
    Is there a explanation for this?
    "It's not the size of the ship, but the motion in the ocean." Simply put, just sticking it in doesn't usually do much for most women most of the time. Go back and read the earlier stuff I wrote about exploring her and finding out what she likes (if she's new to this, she won't know either). Get her warmed up with your mouth and hands, then when you get around to the penis, try to find the same happy spots with it that you discovered with your fingers. As she gets more sexually experienced, she'll get more responsive. But she'll generally need some warm-up at any age.

    Quote Originally Posted by ECCHIKING View Post
    ok well thanks for your concerns (ikhea) but it is gone which leads me to the question i was thinking about today....teasing. I wouldn't think of it during her first time but do you guys to that and if so when did you start? not in the sense of physical teasing but verbal.
    Verbal teasing is another area full of individual variation. Some girls really like it, some are totally turned off by it. There's only one way to find out...

    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    Hi senile_seinen,
    I have a problem here.
    I just started having sex these few days and I can't seem to climax even after a long period of time.
    I can climax in minutes when masturbating though.
    What is the cause?
    Could be a lot of things. Let me guess - you're circumcised. It definitely is bad for sexual pleasure. Want an easy warm-up to heighten your own sensation? Wear silk boxers the day you think you might get lucky. If you're a briefs man it suddenly feels like you sent your junk to the spa for a day. That evening, you'll discover that things just feel different...
    Quote Originally Posted by nick2000 View Post
    Also, Is it possible to ejaculate into the vagina unknowingly.
    That means not feeling the semen coming out.
    Yes. There's often a certain amount that creeps out before the main ejaculation. And yes, there are often viable sperm in it. Do you feel lucky, punk?
    Not really the love+hate god, but the pic (from Midori no Hibi) is just too funny... Blog? Yeah.

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    I was just wondering if it is possible to get "blue balls" from a dream, like a wet dreeam that failed or something. Its just that I remember getting that during the night and I couldn't do anything about it! The pain from that was terrible.

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    Thanks for the advice senile.
    Weird.Even though my gf isn't sweaty and her menses isn't near,
    She is very wet but yet she doesn't want to do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by overmind View Post
    I was just wondering if it is possible to get "blue balls" from a dream, like a wet dreeam that failed or something. Its just that I remember getting that during the night and I couldn't do anything about it! The pain from that was terrible.
    hahah ya i know what u mean...it does happen..i hate it too...especially if ur violently shaken to wake up for school or sumthin..sucks ass ahah

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    was just wondering if it is even possible for you to hit the g-spot with your tongue.

    i was having a chat with a rather close female friend and she told me you could make a gal cum really quickly if you get your tongue on the magic spot. From experience, it normally takes quite a bit to get a girl off using your fingers to stimulate the g-spot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragnier View Post
    was just wondering if it is even possible for you to hit the g-spot with your tongue.

    i was having a chat with a rather close female friend and she told me you could make a gal cum really quickly if you get your tongue on the magic spot. From experience, it normally takes quite a bit to get a girl off using your fingers to stimulate the g-spot.
    Short answer is that it depends. There are surprisingly large variations in personal anatomy down there. Where the magic 'spot' is, how big it is, and how sensitive the tissue around it is are all variable from woman to woman.

    I'd have to say that my hypothetical average girlfriend's g-spot was not accessible to my tongue, at least. Maybe I'm not sufficiently endowed in the tongue department. The good news is that some women do have the sensitive tissue come far enough toward the opening of the vagina that your tongue can tickle the right things. See the early chapters of futari ecchi for descriptions of different vaginal anatomy (something I didn't know had been detailed until I read the chapter). If she's got the corrugations running out to the opening of the vagina, then she's probably very happy to be tickled there.

    The technique I usually adopted for the average woman with a g-spot 2-5 cm in from the opening was to work the tongue around the clitoris and down toward the opening of the vagina, and insert a finger to stimulate the g-spot directly. Fingernails are bad. Short, smooth, and rounded nails are a good move. Use the sensitive pad of your finger (consider your second finger if you have a callous on you index finger) to gently stimulate the g-spot while you keep doing things with your tongue and lips.
    Not really the love+hate god, but the pic (from Midori no Hibi) is just too funny... Blog? Yeah.

 

 
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