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    marseil is offline Junior Member Newbie
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    yes 4play is a girls best friends. and a guys secret weapon it you got inuf tricks. So dont be afraid to get down and dirty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSapphire
    is there any way to ease the pain for a first timer?(female)
    Even a woman that has had sex several times can be hurt if she is not in the mood for the sex. For first timers the pain that they usually talk about, females that is, is their hymen. The hymen is a thin flap of skin that covers the vaginal canal and is usually torn during intercourse for the first time. A very small amount of blood and pain is usually associated with it. However women can break their hymen in several other ways such as horseback riding or even riding a bike.

    The second part about the pain for a girls first time is usually their partners suck major ass and sorta jump the gun. If the guy does not use foreplay and make her horny enough it will hurt. Here are the reasons why. When a woman is aroused more blood is sent to her errogenous areas. The clitoris gets engorged sorta like a miniature penis. Also her labias get engorged. This swelling due to blood causes the womens lips to part thus giving you a good opening. Also a certain amount of lubricants are given off so that the penis can slide in better.

    Most of the time women can handle the first part of the pain; their hymen breaking. The second part is upto their mood and how good their partner is at turning them on. Always use good foreplay techniques and be a bit creative. Other than that lube can always help if your really unsure.

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    wow lots of information everything is duely noted.

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    Ichigo3025 is offline Junior Member Newbie
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    wht kind of things should u do when ur havin ur first time ?
    "We fear that which we cannot see... we respect that which we cannot see... thus the blade will be wielded."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ichigo3025
    wht kind of things should u do when ur havin ur first time ?
    Hmmm? Are we to assume that your in the process of doing it? Or would you like to know what are good things to do before your first time? Your question is not specific enough. A more specific question will give better results. Otherwise i'd have to write a page or 2 of things you should and should not do if its your first time.

    Therefore be specific and tell if your a male or female. Not a mind reader.

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    I know this has to be taken in a case by case basis, but how much foreplay would be reccommended in order for a female to reach an orgasm. It is unusual to require the entire session in order to reach the climax?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellowfever
    I know this has to be taken in a case by case basis, but how much foreplay would be reccommended in order for a female to reach an orgasm. It is unusual to require the entire session in order to reach the climax?
    Define session. You make it sound like foreplay is a chore. It should be fun for both of you. Be a bit more inventive. For example using blindfolds goes a lonnnng way :P. Other than that a good way to know shes ready is if shes very wet and hence very excited, starts moving her hips towards yours, or just grabs your penis/asks for it.

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    Ichigo3025 is offline Junior Member Newbie
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    ok..wht are good things to do when u r havin ur first time ? like Dos n Donts ?
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    session meaning intimate period without interruption, or how long a male can hold his load.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellowfever
    Session meaning intimate period without interruption, or how long a male can hold his load.
    I'm sorry to say that it can take an indefinite ammount of time depending on the female O_o. Recent studies have almost confirmed that the time it takes for a female to achieve orgasm is almost entirely random. The first time you have sex you shouldn't expect your female partner to achieve orgasm unless you've had experience with foreplay before. It has been said many times in this thread, but I will say it again: foreplay is important.

    In other words, if you are frustrated and saying "well that doesn't help me!", then take this advice: feel it out. If you feel she is really getting into it, is wet, possibly begging (probably won't happen due to emberassment about their first time), and you feel you can go the distance (you aren't on the verge of orgasm), then go for it.
    Last edited by Rainbow Randolf; 05-30-2006 at 05:07 PM.

 

 
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