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    Hadou is offline Senior Member Long Time Member
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coldfuzion
    Therefore everyone get hitched.
    Easier said than done :3

    Quote Originally Posted by hselassi
    (PS most of the websites for this method are Catholic or Evangelical, so be forewarned).
    no offense to any christian/evangelical people out there but I laughed for a straight hour on that one phrase.


    Alright now for my question.
    I have heard stories from various people(these guys just tell me this stuff when im not interested on their personal life) but I heard that usually first timers feel a bit weird afterwards(usually what I hear from women/girls). Kinda like a tension but a very very uncomfortable one(bit weird to explain) *edit*oh like a part of their personality changes or their outlook becomes muddled for a while* even though both wanted to I just wanted to know if this is true for the most part or just based off of the individual relationship.

    And for the record I am a virgin and yes I hear a lot of things, I'm kinda like the forced emotional well for other people to cry in -.-.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ikhea
    Here's a tip for you guys : saying "I love you" just before intercourse might work with a quite young or inexperiented girl... but if she's more of a women, there's a big chance she won't take you seriously. It gets tiring after a while, since it's maybe the most used trick to get a woman into bed.
    The important thing, if you want to sleep with a girl (with or without love, that's not the point here), is trust. If she trusts you, you'll surely get what you want.

    So if you want to do it again, say it the next morning while bringing her breakfast in bed, it feels much more trustworthy.

    All that aside, since there is a few quite youg people here, I'd like to say that these tips shouldn't be used in the beginning of your sexual life. In this hard time, the thing you should rely on is honesty. If you don't, I see a lot of troubles in your future relationships.
    And even if it may seem the easiest way, lying to get a woman into bed is not the greatest way, because she will surely realize it one day.
    wow. This is gold right here. ^ ^

    To hselassi: yeah, like I said before, I typed up a much larger response, but lost it all due to failed interwebs. So my response was muchly reduced from its original form and the post you see didnt have a lot of the points and explanations I included in the lost post... sorry bout that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hadou
    Easier said than done :3


    no offense to any christian/evangelical people out there but I laughed for a straight hour on that one phrase.


    Alright now for my question.
    I have heard stories from various people(these guys just tell me this stuff when im not interested on their personal life) but I heard that usually first timers feel a bit weird afterwards(usually what I hear from women/girls). Kinda like a tension but a very very uncomfortable one(bit weird to explain) *edit*oh like a part of their personality changes or their outlook becomes muddled for a while* even though both wanted to I just wanted to know if this is true for the most part or just based off of the individual relationship.

    And for the record I am a virgin and yes I hear a lot of things, I'm kinda like the forced emotional well for other people to cry in -.-.
    I don't get what was so funny about that line (not being fecitious here, just wondering). I know some people are freaked out by religion, so I figured I would let them know that there is a religious backing to this method (most non religious education would just say "go on the pill" or "use a condom" rather than "spend your whole life following the natural rythms of your body").

    Anyway, to your other point, it is quite normal for those feelings to occur, remember, she just gave away something that (whether she wanted to admit it or not) all her life everyone told her was valuable and now she can never have it back. You'd have to be pretty hard core for that not to have some effect on you (with, at least in the short term, probably some "buyers regret," e.g. "did I do the right thing," "what if he was just using me," etc.). I have heard that some girls cry afterwards, seems a bit melodramatic, but I have heard it (and in psych class, not in the boys' room).

    To Aikido: No problem, its just that I noticed most of the people asking questions appear to be kids, so the replies should not only be detailed but aim towards the conservative (keep them from making the same mistakes some of us made).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hadou
    Alright now for my question.
    I have heard stories from various people(these guys just tell me this stuff when im not interested on their personal life) but I heard that usually first timers feel a bit weird afterwards(usually what I hear from women/girls). Kinda like a tension but a very very uncomfortable one(bit weird to explain) *edit*oh like a part of their personality changes or their outlook becomes muddled for a while* even though both wanted to I just wanted to know if this is true for the most part or just based off of the individual relationship.

    And for the record I am a virgin and yes I hear a lot of things, I'm kinda like the forced emotional well for other people to cry in -.-.
    Many times people just have such a high view of what sex is that when it happens its kinda a let down. Especially if they think about it too much and put it on this pedestal about how great it shall be and all that. Other than that there is no weird permanent emotional/personality change. Thats just silly. Its not like the woman your sleeping with sucks out a part of your soul. Right?.....Right????

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    hey... did yall every relize that there may be girl reading this forum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chadt826
    hey... did yall every relize that there may be girl reading this forum...
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    Quote Originally Posted by hselassi
    I don't get what was so funny about that line (not being fecitious here, just wondering). I know some people are freaked out by religion, so I figured I would let them know that there is a religious backing to this method (most non religious education would just say "go on the pill" or "use a condom" rather than "spend your whole life following the natural rythms of your body").
    It's nothing really particular it's just I have such a warped sense of humor certain things just seem funny to me when others it's not so funny. Wasn't ment as to make fun of the whole thing just one of those things I just tend to do.
    Thanks for the input for the question was kinda bothering me, would happen if you hear it for about 3 months straight from other people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hadou
    It's nothing really particular it's just I have such a warped sense of humor certain things just seem funny to me when others it's not so funny. Wasn't ment as to make fun of the whole thing just one of those things I just tend to do.
    Thanks for the input for the question was kinda bothering me, would happen if you hear it for about 3 months straight from other people.
    No problem, I was just wondering.

    Oh, and about the other question, I remembered after I pushed submit that day, that I actually know a crying story. My wife's best friend in high school cried after she lost her virginity. Now granted, she lost it in a very skanky way: In her first year of college she lost it with her then boyfriend, while her boyfriend's best friend was passed out drunk in the next bed. Now, if that doesn't make you cry, I don't know what will. She is now married to a Rumanian and works as a receptionist at a resort in Orlando [make of that what you will, maybe there is a link, maybe there isn't ].

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    questions concerning sex can be answered. political/religious stuff please leave it for bible study.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coldfuzion
    questions concerning sex can be answered. political/religious stuff please leave it for bible study.
    Keep politics far away from religion.

 

 
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