The title of this thread is supposed to attract your attention and state a fact. That I am a damned idiot.
I'll explain why.
I got this girl after me. I do not want her. She always flirts with me, and I, as the damned idiot I am, do occationally flirt back with her. Yeah. Just had to say this somewhere. mhm. You prob. didn't want to hear this. But here you are.
I have another problem though. I got this other girl i really like. I'm not shure she likes me, I meet her on the bus every so often. I always hope she will stand on the busstop where she usually gets on. But I havn't seen her for a while. She always sits with me, even if her friends sit further back in the bus.
I guess this could be a sign that she likes me. but I can't be shure if this is just becouse she likes talking to me. We used to in the same class when we went to the same school, and she never showed me any affection or even a sign of me existing. I was sort of a geek to the rest of the class..
Now she goes to another school. I have her phonenumber. I got it from the yellow pages. :S I have been debating if i should call her or send her a SMS or anything asking her out. I was going to say it face to face, but she has been absent from the bus for 2 weeks or so, not really, but the other times she has been there, there is always someone else there. And i would like to do something like this in private.
I am quite the coward when it comes to showing my feelings to people and I would like to hear what you think.. should I contact her over the phone or should I wait until I meet her the next time and ask her out then?
That could be while or it could not... any opinions?
might as well just phone her up, if she says no then at least you saved yourself several weeks of worrying. :/
Why not a good old fashioned letter? It seems much more personal to recieve a letter from someone, that they took the time to write by hand. Why not go up to her on the bus, give the letter to her, and tell her to open it when she has some free time. In the letter, you could express your feelings probably a lot better than you could in person.
The letter idea is prob a good idea, but i have already decided what I should say to her if I meet her in private.
DAMNED, I am such a coward :(
Whatever you do DO NOT CALL HER. Why, cause you got her number from the phonebook the bloody phonebook. And when you call her she'll probably be like "who's this.........how the hell did you get my number.........omg I got a stalker" Well you know what I'm trying to say. At least get the number from her first then call, but not immadialty in the same day or the next or the next, wait for about a week then call. Trust me.....then you got her...........depending on your social skills.
WTF am I doing posting here. I'm supposed to pity you not help you. Disregard everything I said.
Yeah.. that was what I though too. I should not call her 'couse of I got it out of the phone book. I will wait. Maybe it will happen, maybe not. Just hope I will get her alone in the near future. Yes.. that would be good.
i agree with shinigamiwolf...a actually i think the best thing to do is probably (if youve spoken to her before) is like offer to walk her home or something then see where that leads if its positive then ask her (or give the letter) before she goes inside...
actually i find the best place to talk to girls is in the stairwell but i guess that doesnt apply here. >_>
or you could just lie and say you got it from a friend and you have no idea where he got it from. :?
nah cuz then it definitely looks like stalking... trust me i tried that already to varying degrees of horrid results...
dont do that. and jakko, youre so cute. ^ ^
you need to talk to her in person, have a small conversation, and ask her to do something before she leaves. If she says yes, she'll give you her number, and youre golden. Dont call her or text her if she hasnt given you her number. and the letter thing... thats really hit or miss.
trust me on this.