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    Ziazca is offline Senior Member Long Time Member
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    Default I hate kids

    Story time!

    It's Sunday, I'm at my church's gym, hanging out with my brother and some friends. We're on the basketball court playing footbag. So off to the side of the gym there is a vending machine and a candy dispenser up against the wall. Two kids, probably around middle school age, come into the gym. One of them is pretty chubby and the other is a shrimp.

    So to make a short story shorter, the big chubby kid was slowly stealing the candy dispenser (one of those "insert a quarter and turn a knob to get candy" kind of dispensers) while the shrimp held the door open for him. Well we stopped them and chased them out but they had the most irritating attitude. The damn little kid was like 4 ft. tall but he acted like he was the king of the world or something. When we made them put the candy dispenser back and leave, he was swearing and threatening to beat us up.

    I told my brother, who is still a minor, to go beat the shit out of them because I'm immature like that. Unfortunately he didn't because the kids had already run off to whatever hellhole they crawled out of.

    I dunno why but it seems like I've been noticing a lot of disrespectful, big-egoed, spoiled little brats lately. Today I was at my local grocery store and there was a kid throwing a temper tantrum similar to this. When I told the mother that if she spanked her son while giving him a lesson to not act like that, he would stop, she gave me the most horrified look and replied "Spanking doesn't solve anything!" With one of those snobby tones. >_>

    Hell yes it does. I've only ever thrown one temper tantrum. When I was little and had a temper tantrum, my dad took me aside, spanked my ass and told me I looked stupid when I scream and whine. Then afterwards we came across another kid throwing a tantrum, my dad pointed at the kid and said to me, "See that's what you looked like. Good parents don't let their kids act like that. Never do that again."

    People need to discipline their children... and I think it's because of my dad that I hate kids. I'm done ranting. XD

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    i've seen those kind too. think they're big, right? then they get hurt somehow, and start crying like babies. but i don't think spanking is the absolute best way, but it is required sometimes. sometimes they just need a good hard whack to knock some sense into them.

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    First, before I say anything else, those kids are natural born politicians.

    Now on to the subject.

    There's a general pattern when it comes to opinions on discipline. Either people think physical punishment is wrong or they believe it's the only possible solution.

    Me? If I ever raise any kids, there's going to be a significant trend towards non-corporal punishment. That doesn't mean if they do something self-destructive or obviously malevolent I wont respond with a hard, swift strike to their bottom; but it also doesn't mean I wouldn't try conditioning them to be good people from the start.

    It always seems the bad ones are kids who didn't feel like they got respect from their parents. Beating a kid senseless with any reasonable degree of frequency seems to produce a violent, unstable adult. Yelling at a kid and taking away some minor thing for a few days often leads to people who don't respect the law and have no concept of responsibility.

    Best strategy as far as I'm concerned has always been crime-specific punishments.
    Kid steals something - you take something from them.
    Kid breaks something - you make them do more chores with a previously stated amount of time or number of tasks.
    Kid hits an animal - you hit the kid. (Butt, back of the legs, or hand depending on the situation.)
    Kid swears too much - you take away all forms of "sitting entertainment" for a while.
    Kid makes fun of another kid - Do the same as above - plus a serious lecture.

    Kid's over 11 and does any of the above, particularly with any aggression - Don't up the physical part, but severely increase the restrictions and chores and guilt trip the hell out of them.

    At the end of the day, though, the kid has to know what they did was wrong, not that it's just something they'll be punished over. Most parents I've ever met, including my own, seemed to have no clue what those words actually mean in the context of the real world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ziazca View Post
    When I was little and had a temper tantrum, my dad took me aside, spanked my ass and told me I looked stupid when I scream and whine. Then afterwards we came across another kid throwing a tantrum, my dad pointed at the kid and said to me, "See that's what you looked like. Good parents don't let their kids act like that. Never do that again."
    I want to be like your father, then again, I don't want children.


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    You just like hitting kids, don't you?


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    i've never been hit. ever.
    my parents also say that i've been one of the quietest children they've known (in a good way).

    i think it's genes. valuation etc. etc., parents should blame themselves if their kids are getting on their nerves. or everyone elses.

    try talking to the parents. they'll probably piss you off just as much as the kid did...

    most grown ups need spanking too...

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    Spanking and such doesnt resolve anything.Look at me
    But really,if it goes really wrong,you´ll have a fuckin criminal in you family that´s probably gonna kick your butt when he´s old enough.So what was all your "education" for,then?
    You have to freakin educate you kid not to do that,so you won´t have to teach it to him the hard way...

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    My dad was a very visual teacher. I think the reason why I hate most children is because when I was little, my dad would, like the example I gave above, point out other children's actions (rather loudly too) for me to see. I still see them now and it irritates me to no end. XD

    To Terasiel, I can agree with what you've got there. Physical punishment isn't the solution to anything but it can help sometimes if used the right way ;P. Putting aside the things that factor into a child's development (genetics, schooling, economic status, education of parents, etc) I believe if you talk to, and raise a child with an intelligent tone, they probably won't be as childish (haha) while growing up.

    And no be0 I don't like hitting kids. :P I would like to hit some kids though. Like middle school kids who talk loudly in movie theaters. Or anyone who talks loudly during a movie for that matter... Also to clarify, I don't hate all kids. I mean there are some little children that are okay, and I wouldn't mind having a minio- er, child of my own someday... when I'm in my thirties. XD

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    I would of loved it, if someone Chokeslammed the fat kid. Kids need discipline, smacking works well,a right cross works wonders.

    My own story; I was shopping in a supermarket and some little shit was playing in the cheese section, then started running around knocking shit over. He came next to me, with that "look" in his eye. So I in turn, trip the fucker. He looks at me, I look at him. Next he walks to his mom's side and stays there.

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    Physical punishment isn't the solution to anything but it can help sometimes if used the right way.
    I love physical punishment when applied to brats.

    But you lacked hatred.
    I still remember the slap I gave that fat brat in the middle of the street.(when he was torturing his 4-eyed classmate. mind.) the zenith= the moment he started crying.

    I've been craving for that feeling ever since.
    Last edited by sakura_hana; 12-20-2008 at 08:16 AM.

 

 
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