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    I told my Mom "To go fuck herself" Once and only once. Why? Because she took a hard black plastic ash tray and cracked in half on my skull. I never cursed at her again.

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    "forcing will?"

    well in your case or standard
    I've been raised the old way by my old man.
    even in some times he were cruel to me/and sometimes not.
    (Look pop!I'm fucking hookers and I'm not one of those Fag son you friends have)

    I'm not 100% sure if I'm normal or not.
    But one day when you'll have annoying, sarcastic, spoiled brats as children
    I'm sure you'll understand why the rest of the world prefer the ole way.

    and yeah..
    look at how America wasted a generation
    the way how they raised and educated their children

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    Quote Originally Posted by Henchy432 View Post
    I told my Mom "To go fuck herself" Once and only once. Why? Because she took a hard black plastic ash tray and cracked in half on my skull. I never cursed at her again.
    So... if that is what she did BEFORE you told her to go fuck herself, what did she do AFTER you said that?

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    No, no, I think the 'Why?' refers to him only saying it once, which is because his mom did what he said. so she did it after.

    by the way, Henchy, your sig's from power rangers, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Henchy432 View Post
    I told my Mom "To go fuck herself" Once and only once. Why? Because she took a hard black plastic ash tray and cracked in half on my skull. I never cursed at her again.
    Silly Spartans.

    even their women used violence against their children

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    Quote Originally Posted by Henchy432 View Post
    I told my Mom "To go fuck herself" Once and only once. Why? Because she took a hard black plastic ash tray and cracked in half on my skull. I never cursed at her again.
    Mistery solved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicholas71 View Post
    No, no, I think the 'Why?' refers to him only saying it once, which is because his mom did what he said. so she did it after.

    by the way, Henchy, your sig's from power rangers, right?
    Right on both accounts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueDemon View Post
    My Kid (if IŽll ever get any) will be intelligent enough not to do this silly stuff, tzt tz xD
    Lol XD. If anyone here seriously believes this is how their kids will turn out (I'm assuming you're joking BD), then they're probably too stupid to concieve anyway.

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    My family would beat their kids just for getting bad grades.
    And therein lies the problem with dipshit parenting today.
    Fixed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sakura_hana View Post
    Striking back, eh?

    So about your theory.

    How would you educate your children? It's true that by using physical violence they may end up using such means as well. But in the end, a crying kid is a crying kid.
    The point here is that by employing violence as a deterrent, you're actually making things worse in the long run, as I explained earlier. Better to have a crying kid now than a violent man in twenty years, because a crying kid is only annoying where the man actually is dangerous.

    Quote Originally Posted by sakura_hana
    There are NO kids that do not cry when they won't be given something they want. No such beings exist. No matter how much you may try to "educate" them, it will only work until they are put in front of a toy they want.
    No kid ( at the age at which he still holds mom's hand) will ever respond to reasoning. Ever. Maybe you'll be able to refuse and quicky get out of the story begore they start making a scene but in the end it all comes down to the same thing.
    What I would do is tell the kid no, and if that doesn't stop him/her, I'd take the kid with me and leave. Then I'd tell the kid not to do it again, probably in a disapproving tone or something to that effect. The fact is that for the majority of young kids, the disapproval of a parent is often bad enough to deter repeated bad behaviour.

    Older kids, on the other hand are actually mature enough to understand reason, as long as it is applied consistently. They might not always understand exactly why you tell them to do certain things, but they do grasp cause and effect.

    As I said before, the important thing is consitency. The punishment itself doesn't have to be severe as long as the kid knows it's coming if he or she steps out of line.

    Quote Originally Posted by sakura_hana
    Kids learn something is wrong only when you raise your voice or (not a good thing but it IS a method) when you slap them. (I won't say 'beat the hell out of them', okay?)
    of course "reasoning" works. It's a pitty it only works in theory though.
    You do realize that raising your voice and slapping are merely two degrees of punishment? In both cases you subject the kid to something unpleasant as a consequence to bad behaviour, and thus you condition the kid in question to avoid bad behaviour because the kid doesn't want to experience the unpleasant thing again.

    Now knowing this, why do you argue as if raising your voice and slapping are the only possible punishments? There are literally dozens of other possibilities out there.

 

 
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