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    sakura_hana is offline Senior Member Community Builder
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    ^ Come back home and beat the pie out of some brats!
    We'll be waiting! ^__^

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    ^We? xD

    And violence ainīt the solution.But it helps just fine

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    sakura_hana is offline Senior Member Community Builder
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    ^ Let's say our people are very united by definition.

    You have to freakin educate you kid not to do that,so you wonīt have to teach it to him the hard way...
    How else can you educate the kid?
    I'm sorry but beating them IS educating them to a certain extent. As if some kid would ever be aducated by words only.

    "WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH, I want candy!"
    "No sweety, mom can't you candy. You just had ice cream and you won't eat anything for dinner because you'll be full. Plus, candy is not that healhy for you. Be a good boy and understand that you need vitamins. If you want something sweet, it's better to eat an apple."
    ".......

    BUT I WANT CANDYYYYYYYYY..!!!!"

    wow, apparently it's super effective.
    BUT, if mommy slaps that brat over a bit, he'd cry a bit, get tired and ultimately get quiet. ^__^
    Now he knows apples are good. See?

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    If you're actually reached the point where you're forced to beat your kid in order to get him/her to behave, something, somewhere has already gone wrong. A normally well-behaved kid will get the hint even if you use non-physical punishment as long as you're consistent with enforcing the rules, and it is at consistency that many parents fail.

    Oh, and saying "well, my parents beat me and I turned out fine" is an idiotic argument. And the idea that the threat of violence acts as an deterrent is even more idiotic.

    And by the way, does anyone here (except Zaephyr, apparently) really fail to see the problems that come with a system where the deterrent against bad behaviour is your own physical presence?

    What then happens when the kid learns that the consequences of his bad behaviour fail to materialize when you're not there to see it? And furthermore, since the kid in question now has learned that physical violence is an acceptable method of forcing your will on others, how do you think he/she will behave when dealing with others? Jesus shit, sometimes people are just so stupid it's depressing.

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    wow dude, the humour totally flew over your head. >__<

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    Quote Originally Posted by sakura_hana View Post
    wow dude, the humour totally flew over your head. >__<
    Humour usually is funny. Your posts are not. From this we can conclude that you're a bad comedian.

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    sakura_hana is offline Senior Member Community Builder
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    Striking back, eh?

    So about your theory.

    How would you educate your children? It's true that by using physical violence they may end up using such means as well. But in the end, a crying kid is a crying kid.

    There are NO kids that do not cry when they won't be given something they want. No such beings exist. No matter how much you may try to "educate" them, it will only work until they are put in front of a toy they want.
    No kid ( at the age at which he still holds mom's hand) will ever respond to reasoning. Ever. Maybe you'll be able to refuse and quicky get out of the story begore they start making a scene but in the end it all comes down to the same thing.
    Kids learn something is wrong only when you raise your voice or (not a good thing but it IS a method) when you slap them. (I won't say 'beat the hell out of them', okay?)
    of course "reasoning" works. It's a pitty it only works in theory though.
    Last edited by sakura_hana; 12-20-2008 at 03:30 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saizou View Post
    If you're actually reached the point where you're forced to beat your kid in order to get him/her to behave, something, somewhere has already gone wrong. A normally well-behaved kid will get the hint even if you use non-physical punishment as long as you're consistent with enforcing the rules, and it is at consistency that many parents fail.

    Oh, and saying "well, my parents beat me and I turned out fine" is an idiotic argument. And the idea that the threat of violence acts as an deterrent is even more idiotic.

    And by the way, does anyone here (except Zaephyr, apparently) really fail to see the problems that come with a system where the deterrent against bad behaviour is your own physical presence?

    What then happens when the kid learns that the consequences of his bad behaviour fail to materialize when you're not there to see it? And furthermore, since the kid in question now has learned that physical violence is an acceptable method of forcing your will on others, how do you think he/she will behave when dealing with others? Jesus shit, sometimes people are just so stupid it's depressing.
    My Kid (if Iīll ever get any) will be intelligent enough not to do this silly stuff, tzt tz xD
    And I agree with you.Donīt take all our posts here too serious,most of the people here arenīt even near to parentship (imo & myself included ).

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    My family would beat their kids just for getting bad grades.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ragnarok_moogle View Post
    My family would beat their kids just for getting bad grades.
    And therein lies an argument against corporeal punishment.

 

 
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