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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoMunkeez View Post
    Contrary to popular belief, I'm a one woman man. Pick someone, stick with him or her. If another person comes in and you absolutely feel like he or she is the ONE, break it off with the first one at least. Have some dignity.
    Totally agree here. That's the way it should be. It's not like your first girlfriend has to be the one you're with forever, but when you find someone else, stop the first one.

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    Also, if you're married, you can always sue them, and get some extra money.
    Spot the American

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    why not? Just try not to let the secret punctured from the lifeboat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tetnubis View Post
    So you would rather fight the fates? Limiting your lifestyle by setting boundaries to it. Its true the partner is not a car, people have feelings. But what if you and your partner are not meant to be?

    What if the person you loved, lost their basic motor functions? Or had brain damage to the point where they couldn't do anything for themselves. Your eyes wouldn't stray?
    If you and your partner aren't getting along, then you can get a divorce. Now I'm not talking about extreme cases, I'm saying If Person A married person B, then person C came along who is more attractive than person B, should person A go for that one and leave B? Whoever your wife(or husband) is, there will always be someone who is more attractive/smarter/has something she doesn't. If you keep looking at other people when you're married, you'll never have a stable, or respectable life, you should accept what you have.

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    Infidelity sucks, you have to be really shameless to betray someone's trust like that.

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    As opposed to the long standing idea that the idea is to spread the seed as far and wide as possible...


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    Quote Originally Posted by MadDogMike View Post
    Relationships are about trust and devotion. If your girlfriend is going to cheat on you before you're married, she has shown that she doesn't deserve to be trusted and that she hasn't got the devotion to make the marriage work. Same goes the other way around.
    I agree with this reasoning

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    I'm going to be honest. I see bias.


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    opinions are supposed to be biased, arn't they ?

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    Yeah I know but now I've got to wrack my brains as to why these are. I don't want to go with the obvious conclusion. Anyway don't mind me continue the discussion!


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    Fine Steal, I'll post something.

    Gather round kiddies! It's time for Terasiel's fun fun World of Relationships!

    1) I don't believe that marriage should be the focus of a long-term relationship; but rather one of many options.

    2) If the person were to go out and have sex with someone (once or a few times) and I found out about it, I've long since came to three conclusions:
    a)If someone else told me, I'd probably hide the fact that I knew it from them; and just try to amp up the love and pampering in the relationship. Hurts, I know, but if it were just a spur of the moment thing (even if it happened more than once in a short period of time) then they were needing it for some reason. I'd feel guilty myself.
    b)If they told me themselves, I'd forgive them. Flat out. No questions asked. No pressure applied. No grudge held. If someone loves me enough that they feel guilty for cheating on me, then the best reaction I could possible have that no one else has, is to comfort them. Nothing stings as bad as a forgiving victim.

    3) When it comes down to it, I can stand an open relationship to some extent. I'd much rather have a best friend who happens to love and lust for me, than a monogamous partner who's stuck with me.
    Last edited by Terasiel; 03-06-2008 at 09:44 AM.

 

 
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