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    Infidelity is in laymans terms... cheating on partner.


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    Cheating Csuti.
    Quote Originally Posted by MadDogMike
    Relationships are about trust and devotion.
    Personal opinion and perception right? Why can't a relationship be based on your feelings for one another?
    Quote Originally Posted by SD
    Is it infidelity if its an open relationship or is it only infidelity if its a betrayal of trust?
    Betrayal of trust.

    Personally, i feel there is a boundary. If they cheat without intent I can let it slide. But as I said, there are boundaries, I think its clear, but I'm willing to expand on that if anybody is curious. There is also the fact that I wouldn't be with somebody I don't know.


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    Hurts like hell no matter what.

    as for someone cheating on me.. well it depends on the person I guess (as to weither or not I'd take them back) Some people if they cheat it's because they've stopped loving who they cheated on. You don't really recover from that, their cheating is a sign of them having moved on from the current relationship for good. Others, a simple mistake, getting carried away with physical attration and the heat of the moment.

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    Prolonged infeidelity... (more than a week or two max.)... That's a breaker imo.

    But I can't say for sure I guess. For me if I wasn't already in a marriage with that person I'd probably dump them. I see no reason to continue if they (or I) haven't made that commitement.


    please though all hypothetical >_> I dont' think we actually know what we'd do before hand for sure.

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    I wonder about responding to infidelity with infidelity.


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    That's one of the most stupid self defence reactions on this planet. The one out for revenge rarely gets the satisfaction they are seeking.


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    In-Fidelity = What Cubans had to deal with for 49 years.

    Quote Originally Posted by StealDragon View Post
    I wonder about responding to infidelity with infidelity.
    It's better and simpler to simply dump your partner. Also, if you're married, you can always sue them, and get some extra money.


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    Take one person you see decent as a husband/wife, stick with him/her, don't look at anyone else. It's not like a car you change once you find a better version.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bipolargraph View Post
    Take one person you see decent as a husband/wife, stick with him/her, don't look at anyone else. It's not like a car you change once you find a better version.
    So you would rather fight the fates? Limiting your lifestyle by setting boundaries to it. Its true the partner is not a car, people have feelings. But what if you and your partner are not meant to be?

    What if the person you loved, lost their basic motor functions? Or had brain damage to the point where they couldn't do anything for themselves. Your eyes wouldn't stray?


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    Infidelity before marriage is sometimes a gray area because both sides might be reluctant to admit openly what their level of commitment is. Once you make an admission on commitment and fidelity to one person, your position is fixed and there's no longer any vagueness about where where you stand in the relationship.

    If you do this and then later decide to cheat on your girlfriend or boyfriend, then your actions have made a lie out of what you previously said. If you've cheated on someone who wasn't very trusting or forgiving to begin with, then that relationship is probably at an end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tetnubis View Post
    Personal opinion and perception right? Why can't a relationship be based on your feelings for one another?
    Of course relationships aren't only about trust and devotion, but what would any relationship be without them? Doomed, I say.

    If you didn't think those were an important part of a relationship then are you saying it's ok to cheat and lie to your partner as long as you both still love each other?

 

 
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