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    It just crossed my mind, but Csuti aren't you about to leave for school in a couple of months? Don't even bother if you're not gonna be there long, and if you do bother, will the heartache of separation be worth it (coupled with losing your friend)?


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    err I'm not sure that Chuu meant herself personally Steal..

    *shrugs* crushes come and go, not worth losing friendship over it. Hell one of my good friends is dating my ex and she was so worried about changing our friendship dynamics... she was hilariously over-cautious.

    Meh, talk with them if you feel strongly, hopefully your friendship is strong enough to get over this situation (oh and kiddies the "your friend should support you" works BOTH ways)

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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoMunkeez View Post
    Bros before hos.
    Or hos before bros.
    Either way.
    Or chicks before dicks XD

    Um.. realistically? Knowing me... I would smile and let the girl chase the boy. And then I would bitch about it to a 3rd party of friends who doesn't know the boy or the girl and ask em for advice..

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    Quote Originally Posted by coolpuprocks View Post
    Or chicks before dicks XD
    damn you beat me to it, i was going to post that =\

    if it were me, i'd let my friend go for it and find some other fish to fry. no point gambling a long-term friendship for a crush.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverwmoon View Post
    (oh and kiddies the "your friend should support you" works BOTH ways)
    Not to sound overly cliché, but, that has got to be one of the most painful double-edged swords in the entire arsenal that is the subject of romantic relationships.

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    This is why I don't participate in love triangles.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverwmoon View Post
    err I'm not sure that Chuu meant herself personally Steal..
    I just assume that threads like these are started for a reason...


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    This thread is like picture proof of why I tell people not to ask for advice on forums :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by martyr3810 View Post
    This thread is like picture proof of why I tell people not to ask for advice on forums :P
    I agree with your logic but is there a better place to get the opinions of many?


    I'd like to die with the songs I love stuck in my head. I hope to make the most of these hollow bones we become.
    I raise a toast to the the souls that sang all along. I've been gathering friends to just to make some sounds,
    before the ship goes down, I've been making amends by making the rounds before the whole world ends


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    Quote Originally Posted by StealDragon View Post
    I agree with your logic but is there a better place to get the opinions of many?
    Bathroom stalls. People will answer you.

 

 
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