I noticed there are a number of attractive men and women on this site and I was wondering if any of you have ever been angry because someone was only interested in you for your looks and not what you think or say? Or that they assumed straight off that you were and air/meat head?
For everyone who doesn't think they're pretty; have you ever fawned over someone just because of how they looked even if you hated who they were (not including celebrities)?
^rofl, just when I was thinking on commenting on how I think I never had this problem I read the last line.
And no, they can be pretty but if they have a shitty persona, I'll not cope with it.
Also I never assume they are straight air heads, based on looks (or color of hair)
I've met some HOT guys with such crappy personalities. And when I see guys like that all I think is "He's only good for a fling". I just get disgusted no matter how hot they are.
ive had 2 gfs that werent drop dead sexy but i loved hanging out with them
and 3 gfs that were hawt as hell and i wish i could scratch out my eyes even moment i was with them
and 1 gf that was cute that i really liked, but she moved *cries*
and like 5 that werent hawt that i hated
I've been with er... 0 guys.
One I'd liked for a while was pretty good looking, but was HORRIBLY insensitive.
I mean, he went out with some girl, didn't have the guts to tell her he didn't her, then when they both went to the movies, he got a text off his mate to go outside (since his mate didn't know he was on a date at the time.)
Then when the girl'd gone off to the loo, he walked out, didn't tell her or anything, and never called her back.
AND HE DIDN'T KNOW HE'D DONE ANYTHING WRONG.
It wasn't in his mind like 'Oh, I'm too scared to apologize', or anything.
It was just 'Yay- I never have to talk to her again.'
I lol'd at ^. 'Didn't have the guts to tell her he didn't her' amongst other things.
As for Steal's question:
a) Not gonna happen, too fugly
b) I can't fawn over someone I hate.
There are alot more girls in the forum then I originally though that would be O_O
its like one out every third guy or somehting..
But back to the topic..
They gotta have a good persona, Otherwise you might as well hang out with a doorstop..
But I met this one girl once, Really drop dead sexy, but the way she acted was just straight out shitty..she complainen over everything, like she didn't wanted to take the stairs because it was too long, acted like a real princess, and thought she was a better person then everybody else..
But if I had to choose between a face and a great personality, I would rather date a 'not so attractive' girl, and still love her more then the really beautifull one.
Since I'm not good looking: No, I wouldn't fawn over someone who looked sexy but had a rotten personality. To be honest, I don't really feel that attracted to people who most would label as sexy. I like different qualities than most I guess, I'm much more attracted to girls who look cute and who have a nice personality. There are quite a few of those here, it seems. :)
I HATE NAGGERS AND COMPLAINERS MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE. I guess I'm that way because of my mum. She's a total cleaning/housework Nazi who always manages to find completely unnecessary things for herself to do, yet she ALWAYS complains about having to do them, non-stop, all day long. I'd never be able to live with a woman who is so uptight.
+1 :) (though I think prejudges are normal. It's just that we should be ready to question them for each individual to draw a more conclusive and personified definition instead of just blindly staying on our first impressions, which is indeed bad)
Originally Posted by irecinius
If I am going to live with another person, it will not be to have a worse life than if I stay alone so personality is way more important than looks for me (though I understand that people who are only after a quick fling would definitely emphasize on looks (and as a matter of fact, wouldn't even care if the other people was a meat head or not)).
Em, first question; not going to happen. But I have had some people call me an idiot because of my boobs. Or that may because I am constantly forgetting things. :(
Second question; Depends on the guy. I know one seriously beau-ti-ful guy that I wouldn't go out with. But that's because of his personality. He's a great guy when you're his friend but treats girls who date him very badly.He is the man-whore.