I've been with er... 0 guys.
One I'd liked for a while was pretty good looking, but was HORRIBLY insensitive.
I mean, he went out with some girl, didn't have the guts to tell her he didn't her, then when they both went to the movies, he got a text off his mate to go outside (since his mate didn't know he was on a date at the time.)
Then when the girl'd gone off to the loo, he walked out, didn't tell her or anything, and never called her back.
AND HE DIDN'T KNOW HE'D DONE ANYTHING WRONG.
It wasn't in his mind like 'Oh, I'm too scared to apologize', or anything.
It was just 'Yay- I never have to talk to her again.'