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    haha again with the "don't know how they look like" xD
    just because they live far away, dosn't mean you havn't seen pics or them, ya know. =P plus in our modern technology we can be thankfull to webcams and such.
    It's almost like talking in person, except not really ... haha. well you're missing the phisical part. but uhh .. now the topic's moving towards the "relationship" thread. so I'll keep my comments on this short.


    another random thought:
    I read in a few posts that "love is when you find the other beautiful inside and out, no matter what"
    would this "find" be the acceptance of the other's looks/personality, or would it be that they don't even notice the faults in them anymore?
    or does this even make sence?

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    Quote Originally Posted by csuti View Post
    another random thought:
    I read in a few posts that "love is when you find the other beautiful inside and out, no matter what"
    would this "find" be the acceptance of the other's looks/personality, or would it be that they don't even notice the faults in them anymore?
    or does this even make sence?
    everyone has faults, and the only time you dont notice is when your head over heels about the person. When you in that spot, it's bad to make decisions, since your thoughts are blurred. Like i said earlier, everything is lovey dovey. It's when you truly know the person and know their faults, but still accept them for it. Applies vice versa too.


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    love is like a balloon the higher you fly,the better the view
    the higher you get shot down,the harder you fall...

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    Quote Originally Posted by csuti View Post
    haha again with the "don't know how they look like" xD
    just because they live far away, dosn't mean you havn't seen pics or them, ya know. =P plus in our modern technology we can be thankfull to webcams and such.
    It's almost like talking in person, except not really ... haha. well you're missing the phisical part. but uhh .. now the topic's moving towards the "relationship" thread. so I'll keep my comments on this short.


    another random thought:
    I read in a few posts that "love is when you find the other beautiful inside and out, no matter what"
    would this "find" be the acceptance of the other's looks/personality, or would it be that they don't even notice the faults in them anymore?
    or does this even make sence?
    I think that it is possible and could happen but the thing is that a webcam and pictures can't tell you everything about a person. Bad habits they have, the way they smell and many other things.

    I think the only thing I would be willing to die for is a certian manilla folder and it's contents.


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    Quote Originally Posted by csuti View Post
    haha again with the "don't know how they look like" xD
    just because they live far away, dosn't mean you havn't seen pics or them, ya know. =P plus in our modern technology we can be thankfull to webcams and such.
    pshh, all camera tricks. >.<
    he could really be a 40year old man

    Quote Originally Posted by csuti View Post
    another random thought:
    I read in a few posts that "love is when you find the other beautiful inside and out, no matter what"
    would this "find" be the acceptance of the other's looks/personality, or would it be that they don't even notice the faults in them anymore?
    or does this even make sence?
    maybe "find" is just one of those rare qualities in people that you dont see in anyone else
    if it is a "fault" thingy, for your sake csuti, i hope his biggest fault is that he could have is that smells. =/

    Quote Originally Posted by mystic_guard_sinoel View Post

    I think the only thing I would be willing to die for is a certian manilla folder and it's contents.
    so...whats in it?
    Street Fighter > All


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    Quote Originally Posted by vphamv
    so...whats in it?
    Emotions, stories and people and their emotions and time. Time I can't get back and won't get back no matter how hard I try. Time I'm not sure I do want to get back.


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    Like is a few drinks, a laugh and a good time.

    Love is an illusion that tears you to pieces and leaves you crying in the dirt over nothing, it's being made to look at that hollow emptiness inside and realising you'll die lonely, bitter and probably mad. It's trying to fool yourself into believing there is hidden meaning and order in chaos, of sugarcoating biological imperatives, lying to yourself in an attempt to meet impossible standards and feeling miserable when the house of cards inevitably topples.

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    Quote Originally Posted by deuce22
    everyone has faults, and the only time you dont notice is when your head over heels about the person. When you in that spot, it's bad to make decisions, since your thoughts are blurred. Like i said earlier, everything is lovey dovey. It's when you truly know the person and know their faults, but still accept them for it. Applies vice versa too.
    How would you know though, that you're in said state fo being "head over heels about a person"? If everything is blurred anyway, then how could you tell reality from what you see?
    I'm not saying I disagree tho. What you said about "you truely know the person and know their faults, but still accept them for it" is how I thought of it too.
    As you said, everyone has faults. There are really 3 things you could do:

    1. won't accept it, and say good bye to the person, when you learn of said faults.
    2. convince yourself it's not there, and at the same time lie to youself
    and to the person, who believes you've accepted them for who they are.
    3. truely accept them for who they are, how they look, how they act.


    Obviously #1 is a dead end. or maybe I should say it dosn't even have a start.
    I think #2 might be the cause of some break-ups between couples both bf/gf and husband/wife. They pretend the faults in the other don't exist, then one day they realize they can't go on like that anymore. Then BOOM. You suddenly find yourself face to face with reality. Now what? You just have to accept the truth. And all of a sudden you might not like it that much anymore.
    #3 is when you truely like a person. You see their faults but accept them anyway. This is what can then maybe lead to what people call "love".

    That's how I see it.
    I won't even talk about stage 1, but in #2, you might think you're in love. THat's just you thinking so. And well .. seems you managed to talk yourself into believe the other has no faults, I'm guessing you'll be pretty good with telling yourself you're in love too. dun dunn!! wake up call. =P


    Quote Originally Posted by yoda
    love is like a balloon the higher you fly,the better the view
    the higher you get shot down,the harder you fall...
    another nice cliche quote. =P


    Quote Originally Posted by mgs
    I think that it is possible and could happen but the thing is that a webcam and pictures can't tell you everything about a person. Bad habits they have, the way they smell and many other things.
    You are right. But look at it this way: you can hide bad habits from people, when you're together irl as well. About the smell, lol I don't know. I guess we're still in need of newer technology ;P such that will let you smell a person through the internet. XD


    Quote Originally Posted by vphamv
    pshh, all camera tricks. >.<
    he could really be a 40year old man
    hahahaha XD atleast now he's not a "50 year old rapist" xP (from other convo)

    Quote Originally Posted by vphamv
    maybe "find" is just one of those rare qualities in people that you dont see in anyone else
    if it is a "fault" thingy, for your sake csuti, i hope his biggest fault is that he could have is that smells. =/
    lol, thanks for caring ^__^


    Quote Originally Posted by pandaman1982
    Like is a few drinks, a laugh and a good time.

    Love is an illusion that tears you to pieces and leaves you crying in the dirt over nothing, it's being made to look at that hollow emptiness inside and realising you'll die lonely, bitter and probably mad. It's trying to fool yourself into believing there is hidden meaning and order in chaos, of sugarcoating biological imperatives, lying to yourself in an attempt to meet impossible standards and feeling miserable when the house of cards inevitably topples.
    didn't we say it takes two to "love"? so then what's with being lonely :/
    you describe love as something that's sad and painful. shouldn't it be the opposite? woudn't love make you feel warm inside? make you happy? to be able to love and be loved in return. you shouldn't feel lonely. because there's someone longing to be with you and hold you in their arms.

    tears you to pieces and leaves you crying in the dirt over nothing
    haha I've done that before ......... I mean ... o___O;;; ...... ehem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by csuti
    haha I've done that before ......... I mean ... o___O;;; ...... ehem.
    Does that field in your sig have any special meaning csuti?


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    hahahahahaha xD that's not "dirt" tho. XP
    it's a prettyful meadow =D

 

 
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