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    They can totally work.

    I have a friend whose boyfriend lives in Saskatchewan and they've been dating for... a long time. Over two years, I think. It's a great relationship and they get along really well. Sure, it costs a lot in long-distance phone calls, but it works.

    OTOH, I did have another friend whose boyfriend lived a few hours away, and she cheated on him. But she was just that kind of person; she'd have done it if he lived here, too.

    I agree with others, it depends on the person - but it CAN work out.
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    It'll be tough. Men are sexually promiscuous, so unless it's real love and not just hormonal driven feelings, it wouldn't work.

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    There's always the risk that the person you're having the relationship with is fake.
    And all the webcam convos are just... in your mind?
    =0

    Scares me sometimes
    I mean, what if you meet for the first time and they're not all you expected them to be?
    Or vice versa?

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    it doesnt work. humans always have faults and weakness. i was dumped for some guy who lived close to her, and she said: lets just be friends.

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    well with long distance relationships...who tends to screw them up more often? Like the guy or the girl??

    cuz from what i've seen (from others) i swear it's the girl.....=\

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    Tetsumaru is offline Senior Member Well Known
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    yes it's the girl, guys are more likely to be losers who are not willing to give up their only chance, and probably wouldnt be able to anyways~

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    It's one of those things that is more than likely to fail purely because the whole point of being in a relationship is to be there for your partner, wether that's for sex, comfort, help or love and when you are in a long distance relationship you have to cope with being without these things for lengthy amounts of time.
    Being without them will usually result in either you yourself searching for them in other places or your partner.
    I tried a long distance relationship and it barely lasted a month, not only did i have needs that wern't being fufilled i worried that his needs were being fufilled by somebody else. :S
    Saying this i also know of a few couple's who have been in long distance relationships and come throught it and are still together.
    So yeah it can work but in 9 out of 10 cases it is very unlikely to.

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    But think about it this way - are they failing because the relationships are long-distance, or because the relationship just didn't work? Would the person really be less inclined to cheat if they saw their partner every day? Would everyone be happier? Just because many break up doesn't mean that long-distance doesn't work - many relationships where people live close together don't work either.
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    Here's the other thing though, what is the premis of the relationship? I mean, in order for them to work there has to be effort on both sides and understanding. Also a willingness to live without certain needs (as Mooch called them). *shrugs* unless the other person is a complete jerk, you'll get out of it what you put into it, it's that simple. If you put in doubt, that's what you'll get.

    I agree with DE, I think the only real difference with long-distance is the amount of effort it requires, you will still split if it wasn't meant to be.

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    There's not sex in long-distance relationship. 'Nuff said.

 

 
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