honestly, i wouldnt be able to say or choose which is worse.
murder - someone loses their life. they lose everything.
rape - besides all the damage, rape is still a violation of life.
how can we as "bystanders" weigh out which is worse?
this question reminds me of the book Lucky by Alice Seabold. The author was raped and the police said that she was lucky, in the book, she begged to differ.