Thread: Pretty Off-topic, even for chit-chat

Definate no,or well most likely;When they mean I'll get back to you it translates to either
"I'll toy around with your hopes and then dash them when it seems boring to me"
Or
"I don't want to go with you,but I don't want to hurt your feelings either so I'm gonna make you wait in hopes that youll lose your patience and ask another girl"

Expect a no if you ask her again.If she wanted to go with you shed say yes.If she didnt want to hurt your feelings and wanted to say no she'd give you the hint of telling you later,which will lead to a no.Unless there was an unusual circumstance such as her friends were there and they thought of you as a loser and didnt want to embarass herself by saying yes.But thats highly unlikely,so well all in all expect a no.

Originally Posted by Hanul

Definate no,or well most likely;When they mean I'll get back to you it translates to either
"I'll toy around with your hopes and then dash them when it seems boring to me"
Or
"I don't want to go with you,but I don't want to hurt your feelings either so I'm gonna make you wait in hopes that youll lose your patience and ask another girl"

Expect a no if you ask her again.If she wanted to go with you shed say yes.If she didnt want to hurt your feelings and wanted to say no she'd give you the hint of telling you later,which will lead to a no.Unless there was an unusual circumstance such as her friends were there and they thought of you as a loser and didnt want to embarass herself by saying yes.But thats highly unlikely,so well all in all expect a no.

Or her friends are there and even though she thinks you are a boring meat bag, they seem to think it is cute you are badgering her and force her to say yes by guilting her into it.
Note, if this happens she is not likely to be a very good or attentive date.

It's not like my friends made me bring the loser to the ball...I just couldn't tell them no. I think they were worried about me being a lesbian...ha, I showed them I invited a girl the year after they did that to me!

ok dude
walk up to this girl, walkin quickly
and grab her and kiss her
make sure do it in front of people and make sure she doesnt slap you
and then walk away and dont say anything

the next day ask her again

Originally Posted by Talamare

ok dude
walk up to this girl, walkin quickly
and grab her and kiss her
make sure do it in front of people and make sure she doesnt slap you
and then walk away and dont say anything

the next day ask her again

That would be quite embarassing,and what if she was gonna say no?That would be extremely awkward.

ask her again when thier alone

gotta be smooth, calm and demanding. if youre nervous and stumbling you will be a total loser for like 3 weeks at least

the kiss will make you popular, and some girls like forceful guys and if they see it or hear about it they might seek you out

She probably likes someone else more and is hoping he asks her out.

You're the back-up guy. Sucks to be you. =P

........I think bbqRus doesn't read our advices anymore.
But I hope he IS going to come back and say how did it go, after all this effort we put in helping him. ^^

Well just ask yourself,
if you are not confident that she will answer "Yes", then most likely the answer is no! so ask other girl dude don't waste your time, guessing.

but for me, judging from the reply that she gave you, it is definitely a no!

Nah, i am still reading it, and i replyed awhile back but it seems stoptazmo had a rollback or something. (and i had trouble remembering my password =_=)

anyway, turns out it's a no, went up to her, pushed her down and started... wait... uh.. scratch the last bit, jokes~ but yeah, it was a no, i asked her again cause she was alone and she says that she has someone else in mind, which is good and all~ now i gotta find someone else..lol, friends are trying to hook me up with some random girl from another school i don't even know =_= thanks for your help guys!!!

btw. i don't think i'd ever really have the guts to go up to a chick and then randomly kiss her, i mean come on i hardly know the girl!

hook up with a random girl from another school? x.o good luck with that.