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  • Yes Please!

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    Exactly is offline Senior Member Respected Member
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    To me, yes. I know you'll disagree with me, rofl. That's just how I feel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Exactly
    To me, yes. I know you'll disagree with me, rofl. That's just how I feel.
    Hey man, that's cool. Not out to pick any fights here, just interested in people's opinions

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    Self pleasuring > sex.

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    Good luck finding someone who can express their's better, because this is just one of many topics where I can only say, "It... just... is!" I rock like that.
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    Yeah, you're the King.

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    I am also against pre-marital sex.

    It is partly on religious grounds, but partly becuase, well, if just doesn't seem right to do it so casually, as Exactly said.

    To me, marriage is not just a physical act. It is an emotional act, and, on some level, a spiritual act, a joining of souls, two becoming one, as I see it. Something that important I would not just give away, in my mind having pre-marital sex is like trading the mansion you can get in a few years for a shack right now.

    Also, it would just seem wrong to me, disrespectful to someone that I love. If I am marrying someone, I am pledging my life to them. If I had sex early, I would dishonor her, dishonor myself, and dishonor the pledge I made to her. At least, that is how I see it, I know most will disagree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jakko
    To me, marriage is not just a physical act. It is an emotional act, and, on some level, a spiritual act, a joining of souls, two becoming one, as I see it. Something that important I would not just give away, in my mind having pre-marital sex is like trading the mansion you can get in a few years for a shack right now.

    Also, it would just seem wrong to me, disrespectful to someone that I love. If I am marrying someone, I am pledging my life to them. If I had sex early, I would dishonor her, dishonor myself, and dishonor the pledge I made to her. At least, that is how I see it, I know most will disagree.
    The question then becomes why marriage is the determining factor. For example, what if you have a girlfriend that you love very much, pledge your life to, etc, but for some reason you don't want to get married? Is there really any difference between such an relationship and marriage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jakko
    having pre-marital sex is like trading the mansion you can get in a few years for a shack right now.
    This comparison doesn't even make sense. You've just compared the act of having sex before marriage to a shack (which i assume is a reference to shaking up?) And that waiting is a mansion...I don't even know why, mansions are big and stuffy (ummm). I think a more fair comparison would be that waiting to have sex until your married is like just completing your newly built home, while having sex before that time is just changing through apartments looking for a place to call your own. (If we must compare this to housing)

    I think it's a choice of circumstance and personal values. And not, "Oh damn, I need to tap dat that." In most cases.

    Also, not all meaningful relationships end with forever (or marriage). Sometimes, it just can't work out, and it's not because you didn't try your hardest or that you didn't really love, care, and respect the person. It's just that your lives are going two very separate ways.

    I think sex before marriage is fine. Just to be responsible, careful, and honest to the person you are with.

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    The question then becomes why marriage is the determining factor. For example, what if you have a girlfriend that you love very much, pledge your life to, etc, but for some reason you don't want to get married? Is there really any difference between such an relationship and marriage?
    Ah, that is where the religious parts come in. I view marraige as more than just a "civil union."
    I see it as a bond made before God, a holy promise to each other, and, the idea of two people becoming one.
    That is why I see marraige as the only time when marraige is appropriate, because of "hokey" religious beliefs that many don't believe. Sorry. =p

    Edit: Also because, as I said, I think that outside of marraige, sex is, well, incomplete, missing vital parts to it. I would not shame myself, or the woman I am going to marry by having sex outside of marraige, because I see sex outside of marraige as a perversion of what it was meant to be. Yeah, I know you won't agree, and I see where you are coming from, and respect it. Also, on some level, just as Exactly said, I cannot explain it, there is just a "wrongness" to it, a strong strike against my conscience.
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    since I don't believe in marrige it's the only kind I'll get. and i agree with Serenity on this one. Sometimes relationships don't work out for many many reasons even if the couple are madly in love.

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